Showing posts with label communication. Show all posts
Showing posts with label communication. Show all posts

Tuesday, July 31, 2012

Essex County: Volume 3: The Country Nurse


by Jeff Lemire, 125 pages

In this final volume of Lemire's Essex County trilogy, an official caretaker of the elderly (and unofficial caretaker of her small rural community's hearts) carries on in her ancestor's path as she works patiently to heal the hurts that don't get better with Band-aids.

For more information on this quietly powerful trio of graphic novels, please see my full series review on NoFlyingNoTights.com!


Friday, June 24, 2011

Send Me

by Patrick Ryan, 310 pages

Once upon a time, Theresa married Dermott and gave him two children, Matt and Katherine. And then he left them. Then Theresa married Roy and gave him two children, Joe and Frankie. And then he left them. These seven lives intersect, part, and ricochet off each other in random yet believable patterns as they each try to make their way, sometimes relying on one another, sometimes hurting one another, over the next forty-odd years. The one thing that will never change, however much they may or may not appreciate it at any given time, is that they are forever a family, and one with Theresa as their anchoring link.

Told in the form of non-chronological, short-story-like chapters, this novel draws the reader into the emotional life of each family member, revealing clues about what they've done in one chapter and hints as to why they've done it in another, letting the reader piece it all together little by little. From the first page to the last, I was invested in the mystery of who these people were and what kept them together and what tore them apart. Art, NASA, the mafia, in-laws, the economy, hurricanes, high school, college, love, death, jealousy, drugs, sex, gossip, Star Wars, Slip 'n' Slides, aging dogs, AIDS, and a million other things all come crashing down on their heads or lift them out of the miasma that is the dysfunctional American family.

And I want more. Ryan has said in recent interviews that he's working on another novel about these characters, and I can't wait to read it. While Theresa is the keystone, and while utterly sympathetic Joe is very loosely based on the author, Frankie is by far my favorite and the one I most want to protect. He is both the most resilient and the most vulnerable. His precocious, adorable childhood obsession with all things science fiction resurfacing as a psychological buoy later in his troubled life just breaks my heart...and comforts me at the same time. At turns funny and sad, surreal and familiar, this touching debut novel promises good things to come (and having read and enjoyed Ryan's three subsequently published YA novels, I speak from experience). It'll make you cry, too, but somehow that's ok.

Friday, May 20, 2011

The Four Agreements by Miguel Ruiz



My friend, Erin, recommended this book almost two years ago and I did what any of our patrons would do.  I looked it up on google and read what the websites had to say!  I loved the idea of using these four simple rules to live by and I started thinking about how I could incorporate them into my life but I didn't get around to reading the book until now.  Although my husband would probably characterize some of the language in the book as "self-help mumbo jumbo" the agreements make plenty of sense to me and have already helped me to reframe some of my thoughts in a more positive way.  So, I don't mind a little mumbo jumbo if it leads to greater happiness!
1.  Be Impeccable with Your Word-tell the truth-to yourself and to everyone else. 
2.  Don't Take Anything Personally-(my personal nemesis) Nothing others do is because of you.
3.  Don't Make Assumptions-Be courageous enough to ask when you don't know something and to express what you really want.  Communicate clearly with others to avoid misunderstandings, sadness and drama.
4.  Always Do Your Best- Your best might change from minute to minute but just do the best you can, always.
Kim F