Showing posts with label relationships. Show all posts
Showing posts with label relationships. Show all posts
Friday, July 13, 2012
"What Was She Thinking? Notes on a Scandal" by Zoe Heller
258 pages
Elderly London schoolteacher Barbara Covett leaves a solitary life. She goes to work, goes home to her cat, and that's about it. That all changes when Sheba Hart takes a job at Barbara's school. She's different from Barbara in nearly every way: she's married with two children, she's only thirty-five, and she's outgoing. Despite all this, Barbara and Sheba become close friends. Eventually, Sheba shares her biggest secret: she's having an affair with a fifteen-year-old student named Stephen. Barbara decides to keep the news to herself, despite her legal and moral obligation to turn Sheba in. But then, when Sheba's actions finally do come to light, some of Barbara's do as well.
This is certainly a disturbing but interesting story. I picked it up because I have heard of the teachers who've had affairs with students, and I couldn't imagine what was going on in their heads when they did so. I knew this was fiction, but I thought it would be interesting nonetheless. It turns out that, in many ways, this is more Barbara's story. Her bizarre obsession with Sheba and her reaction to Sheba's confessions say as much about Barbara as they do about Sheba. I don't think the book ever really answers the question from the title--What was she thinking?--and it's very predictable, but I enjoyed it for the most part. There's a lot more humor than I expected from such troublesome subject matter, too.
Saturday, June 30, 2012
"The Art of Fielding" by Chad Harbach
528 pages
At tiny Westish College, baseball star Henry
Skrimshander seems destined for major league greatness. He’s not the biggest or
most athletic, but he has something special…a gift that is hard to put into
words but is evident whenever he steps on the field. But then, as Henry is
closing in on the record for consecutive games without an error, a routine
throw goes disastrously off course. In that one moment, the fates of five
people are changed forever.
I loved this book. The Art of Fielding is something special—a literary sports novel
that captures the beauty of baseball and has a lot more to it as well. The characters
feel so real that as I was reading I often forgot that they aren’t. I liked the
way that their lives intertwine and how all of their choices and actions affect
each other. The writing style fits the story perfectly, creating an almost
nostalgic feel even though it takes place in the present. The baseball scenes
are captivating and portray the mystical atmosphere of the sport. There are
some surprises at the end and things are wrapped up rather nicely. This is one that I recommend for all baseball
fans…and everyone else.
Tuesday, June 5, 2012
"The Stuff That Never Happened" by Maddie Dawson
336 pages
In
her head, Annabelle knows that she's lucky. She has a faithful husband a career
that she loves, and two loving grown children. Her heart, however, can't let go
of a man she loved more than twenty-five years ago. Her feelings for Jeremiah
never really left, but they've intensified as her husband, Grant, has begun
writing a book and become completely engrossed in his work, leaving Annabelle lonely
and isolated. Then Annabelle leaves their home in New Hampshire to take
care of their daughter in New York during her high-risk pregnancy, putting even
more literal and figurative distance between Annabelle and Grant. And when
Annabelle runs into Jeremiah on the streets of the city, she's forced to
confront her past with him and decide where her future will take her.
This
isn’t the type of book I normally read, but I enjoyed it. I myself often feel
paralyzed when making big decisions that will affect the rest of my life, so I
sympathize with Annabelle as she struggles to figure out what to do about her
marriage. She seems like a real person, as do her daughter and son. Grant and
Jeremiah, however, seem very two-dimensional to me. One of the big problems I
have with this book is that neither of the two men Annabelle feels torn between
is really as wonderful as she’s made them out to be in her mind. Grant is so
obsessed with writing his book that he’s downright neglectful, and Jeremiah
just seems completely selfish. I also didn’t like the repetitiveness that comes
up occasionally—Annabelle rehashes the same thoughts over and over, which is
realistic but not fun to read. Still, I thought it was nice to read a book that
describes marriage as it is in real life, with problems and flawed people,
instead of the fairy-tale stuff that we often find in fiction.
Friday, March 16, 2012
"An Abundance of Katherines" by John Green
227 pagesBy his own definition, Colin Singleton is a prodigy. His peers says he's a genius, but he insists that he's not because he hasn't created or discovered anything new. He has potential, though, and his biggest desire is to matter. He wants to use his potential for something important. His biggest weakness and distraction, however, is Katherines. Katherines are his type. He's dated and been dumped by nineteen--yes, nineteen!--Katherines. The latest, K19 (Katherine the 19th), was the love of his life and their break-up left him devastated. To get him out of his funk, his best pal, Hassan, decides to take Colin on a road trip. Without an itinerary or even a destination, the boys head south from Chicago and eventually end up in Gutshot, Tennessee, where they meet Lindsey Lee Wells and her gregarious mother, Hollis, who offers the boys summer jobs in the tampon string factory she owns. City boys Colin and Hassan are totally out of their element in tiny, rural Gutshot, but they stick around and discover that the little town might have something to teach them after all.
I really, really love the way John Green writes. He has such a goofy but also insightful way of telling a story. There's not a lot of action in An Abundance of Katherines, and although I tend to favor fast-paced books I have to admit that this story really doesn't need it. The characters more than make up for any lack of excitement. Colin is someone who, I bet, would be totally annoying in real life but is endearing on paper. He's neurotic and nerdy and sometimes self-absorbed, but I think everyone can relate to him in some way. He's much smarter than the average person, but he feels like it's not enough and I definitely know what it's like to think I'll never meet my own expectations. Hassan, my favorite, is the comic relief. He totally cracks me up, but you can tell that he also has a lot of heart in the way that he looks out for Colin. He's got some issues of his own, though, as he can't seem to grow up. Then there's Lindsey, who can't figure out who she really is (who can't relate to that?) and the rest of the residents of Gutshot, who are hilarious. Although the conclusion is pretty predictable, I didn't care. I enjoyed getting to know the characters and watching them grow so much that it didn't matter to me.
Friday, February 17, 2012
My Boyfriend Wrote a Book About Me...
My Boyfriend Wrote a Book About Me: And Other Stories I Shouldn't Share With Acquaintances, Coworkers, Taxi Drivers, Assistants, Job Interviewers, Bikini Waxers, and Ex/Current/Future Boyfriends But Have
by Hilary Winston
226 pages
This book was on my list of books to read, and I forget why, but I'm glad I read it.
Hilary is a television writer who walked into a Barnes & Noble one day and saw that her ex-boyfriend had, indeed, written a book about her. He had changed her name, but she knew who he was talking about when he mentioned his "fat-ass girlfriend" multiple times.
Hilary's book is about the aftermath of seeing the book and reminiscing over her love life up until that point. She talks about her first boyfriend, her first love, hookups, mistakes, etc.
I liked this book because with every relationship comes self-discovery, whether it's before/during/or after the relationship. Hilary learns important things about herself that I think every female can relate to when it comes to relationships with men.
Let's just hope they don't all write books about us.
by Hilary Winston
226 pages
This book was on my list of books to read, and I forget why, but I'm glad I read it.
Hilary is a television writer who walked into a Barnes & Noble one day and saw that her ex-boyfriend had, indeed, written a book about her. He had changed her name, but she knew who he was talking about when he mentioned his "fat-ass girlfriend" multiple times.
Hilary's book is about the aftermath of seeing the book and reminiscing over her love life up until that point. She talks about her first boyfriend, her first love, hookups, mistakes, etc.
I liked this book because with every relationship comes self-discovery, whether it's before/during/or after the relationship. Hilary learns important things about herself that I think every female can relate to when it comes to relationships with men.
Let's just hope they don't all write books about us.
Sunday, January 29, 2012
Where She Went
by Gayle Forman, 264 pages
The sequel to the heartwrenching novel If I Stay. Three years ago, Mia survived a horrific accident that killed her family, and after her recovery, left her boyfriend Adam alone, confused, and heartbroken. Now, Adam is a successful rock star and spiraling out of control, never having come to terms with the death of Mia's family and their eventual breakup. When Adam and Mia connect unexpectedly in New York, Adam must face his heartbreak and do his best to understand this new Mia and relate her to his memories.
While this was riveting and emotional, it was on a different level from the anguish of If I Stay. Between the two books, Forman has managed to portray two types of grief: the sudden, horrifying pain of lives taken too soon, and the long, devastating pain of unexplained heartbreak.
Wednesday, January 11, 2012
"Cool, Calm, and Contentious" by Merrill Markoe
288 pagesIn this collection of personal essays, comedian and author Merrill Markoe discusses, among other things: her difficult mother, who takes pleasure in being unpleasant to everyone from her daughter to the waiter; her classic teenage insecurities, which drive her parents even more crazy than they already are; relationships with narcissistic men; and her pack of unruly dogs that have taken over her home. In addition to these personal reflections, Markoe shares some general wisdom and observations that she's picked up over the years, including "How to Spot an Asshole" and "Celebrity 2.0."
I really enjoyed Markoe's witty, sarcastic essays. I found myself laughing out loud several times, but there's a lot of heart to her collection as well. I like the way she uses humorous, bizarre situations from her life to make a point or connect with the readers. I feel like there's something in here for almost everyone to relate to: frustrating family members teen angst; the struggle to find our places in the world and figure out who we are; the appeal of pets; and more. Reading Cool, Calm, and Contentious reminded me how funny the messy, imperfect parts of life can be.
Wednesday, August 31, 2011
My Boyfriend Wrote a Book About Me
by Hilary Winston
240 pages
"Just when Hilary feels like her life is finally in order, she gets a sucker-punch to the gut: Her ex has written a novel based on their relationship in which he refers to her throughout as the “fat-assed girlfriend.” Her response to this affront is just one of the many hilarious stories in My Boyfriend Wrote a Book About Me--a laugh-out-loud, tell-all in which Hilary sets the record straight on all her exes." --Amazon.com
I could really relate to this book, not that my boyfriend wrote a book about me, but because it truthfully (and rather hilariously) portrayed the trials and tribulations of a romantic relationship. Also, she has a cat that acts almost exactly like my cat.
240 pages
"Just when Hilary feels like her life is finally in order, she gets a sucker-punch to the gut: Her ex has written a novel based on their relationship in which he refers to her throughout as the “fat-assed girlfriend.” Her response to this affront is just one of the many hilarious stories in My Boyfriend Wrote a Book About Me--a laugh-out-loud, tell-all in which Hilary sets the record straight on all her exes." --Amazon.com
I could really relate to this book, not that my boyfriend wrote a book about me, but because it truthfully (and rather hilariously) portrayed the trials and tribulations of a romantic relationship. Also, she has a cat that acts almost exactly like my cat.
Thursday, June 30, 2011
Autobiography of a Fat Bride

By: Laurie Notaro, 272 pp.
OMG!! I hope that is allowed!
This book is so funny ~ Well, really Laurie Notaro is hilarious! She kept me laughing throughout the entire book!
Notaro describes her life as a "big Italian" girl. She tells us everything! She holds nothing back! I think one of my favorite parts is the chapter "Red Mice!" It is a bit gross, yet so true and funny!
Unfortunately, we do not have this title in our system. I borrowed it through MOBIUS.
Place your hold on it today! You will be glad you did!
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Friday, June 24, 2011
The Intimates by Ralph Sassone
"At least he and Maize had each other. If they didn't have romance or jobs or money or position or good housing just yet, they had their friendship. Friendship and company while they flailed."
Robbie and Maize have been friends since high school when a brief romantic encounter gave way to friendship with the realization that Robbie was gay. After losing touch in college, the two are reunited and become fast friends sharing everything and living together as they struggle with what they imagined their life to be versus reality.
This book is the oddest little thing. Robbie and Maize are the best of friends yet their friendship is defined by so many moments of this reader going, what? I'd never do that to my friends or seriously? You care that little? Each character "thought" wonderful things about the other but their actions rarely transferred that affection into reality. The moments of the book that hit home were the individual reflections on the status of their life. You know, when you find yourself not settled down or not secure in a job when the rest of your peers are. Life doesn't seem to be working quite right and it is in those moments that friendship shines through. Not a quick read despite its slim size. 2011, 247 pages.
Robbie and Maize have been friends since high school when a brief romantic encounter gave way to friendship with the realization that Robbie was gay. After losing touch in college, the two are reunited and become fast friends sharing everything and living together as they struggle with what they imagined their life to be versus reality.
This book is the oddest little thing. Robbie and Maize are the best of friends yet their friendship is defined by so many moments of this reader going, what? I'd never do that to my friends or seriously? You care that little? Each character "thought" wonderful things about the other but their actions rarely transferred that affection into reality. The moments of the book that hit home were the individual reflections on the status of their life. You know, when you find yourself not settled down or not secure in a job when the rest of your peers are. Life doesn't seem to be working quite right and it is in those moments that friendship shines through. Not a quick read despite its slim size. 2011, 247 pages.
Thursday, March 31, 2011
Breathing Underwater

by Alexandra Flinn, 263 pages
It was just a slap. But she had it coming, right? So why does everyone hate Nick Andreas and why is the love of his life, Caitlin, taking out a restraining order on him? As a condition of the court, Nick is required to go to anger management group therapy as well as journal the events that lead up to this point in his life. You'll be hard-pressed to put this one down as you wait to discover what happens to Nick and the interesting group of characters that surround him.
I really, really enjoyed this novel. Written from Nick's perspective, your emotions will run the gamut - hate, confusion, sympathy - I felt them all. He's a tragic character really. His dad has beat him his whole life and so when someone finally comes along that truly cares about him, he can't deal with it appropriately. His disbelief turns to jealousy which then turns into violent controlling behavior. Red flags were abundant to everyone but Caitlin who is easily manipulated because she struggles with her own self-esteem issues. It was a recipe for disaster from the start. This book has a lot to teach young men and women how to be aware of the situations they put themselves in (hopefully before they get into them).
Fans of Chris Lynch's Inexcusable will appreciate the hope found in this novel that seemed to be absent from Lynch's. This is an optimistic journey of self-discovery and shows that when someone truly reflects on their behavior and finally accepts that they have a problem, real change can take place.
Thursday, February 17, 2011
The Lover's Dictionary by David Levithan
breathtaking, adj.
“Those mornings when we kiss and surrender for an hour before we say a single word.”
Levithan’s first novel for adults brings the reader into the romantic relationship between two nameless characters told completely in the format of a dictionary. Words are listed alphabetically with a snippet from the relationship that relates to the word. Some words have a sentence of definition/story. Others are a few pages in length. All tell of the intricacies, humor, passion and secrets that reside in everyone involved in a relationship.
The beauty of the words in this book take my breath away. The format lends itself to being able to easily pick up where you left off weeks ago, but I doubt you will be able to. Levithan has a gift in bringing the simplest of thought into the riot of emotions that are part and parcel to a relationship between two people. There is a comfortable, familiar feel here and you will want to know where it all leads. An easy read that will stick with you. 2011, 211 pages.
Oh, and just incase it all sounds too “mushy”, take this entry into account too.
flagrant, adj.
“I would be standing right there, and you would walk out of the bathroom without putting the cap back on the toothpaste.”
“Those mornings when we kiss and surrender for an hour before we say a single word.”
Levithan’s first novel for adults brings the reader into the romantic relationship between two nameless characters told completely in the format of a dictionary. Words are listed alphabetically with a snippet from the relationship that relates to the word. Some words have a sentence of definition/story. Others are a few pages in length. All tell of the intricacies, humor, passion and secrets that reside in everyone involved in a relationship.
The beauty of the words in this book take my breath away. The format lends itself to being able to easily pick up where you left off weeks ago, but I doubt you will be able to. Levithan has a gift in bringing the simplest of thought into the riot of emotions that are part and parcel to a relationship between two people. There is a comfortable, familiar feel here and you will want to know where it all leads. An easy read that will stick with you. 2011, 211 pages.
Oh, and just incase it all sounds too “mushy”, take this entry into account too.
flagrant, adj.
“I would be standing right there, and you would walk out of the bathroom without putting the cap back on the toothpaste.”
Sunday, January 30, 2011
For Mothers of Difficult Daughters

~How to enrich and repair the bond in adulthood~
By: Dr. Charney Herst w/ Lynette Padwa
265 pp.
If the relationship between mother and daughter is faltering, strained, or nonexistent, then this book is just right to help begin a new bonding and understanding.
Dr. Herst explains the three main types of difficult daughters as being dependent, dissatisfied, or distant; some might even have all three traits. Herst also explains that within the literature and psychoanalytic world, it is usually the mothers who get the blame for their daughter acting up. There are speculations that a mother did not pay enough attention to their daughter or that the mother just did not know how to raise their daughter at all. Well, who does know exactly what to do when raising a daughter? Herst gives lists for you to check and see how it relates to you with your relationship with your daughter. Herst also recommends having a mediator to help with this relationship bonding. A mediator must be someone who does not know either the mother or daughter in order for a neutral outlook upon this relationship.
This book is a quick read, but very informative all the same. I thoroughly enjoyed reading this insightful book.
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